Have you ever been afraid that if you dream, you’ll be disappointed? I have.
I understand.
We all had dreams, 1, 5 or 20 years ago that didn’t come true.
Maybe, like me, you dreamed about all the places you’d travel to, the muscled prince you’d marry, the horse-riding competitions you’d win, the huge piece of land in West-Virginia you’d own, where you would gallop around on your horse for hours…
So far, I haven’t galloped around in West-Virginia…
And… it’s not my dream anymore.
That’s right.
It’s why I believe dreams don’t have to come true.
I believe dreams are like pointers, like North Stars that guide you forward on your unique path…
Until… you decide you don’t want to marry a prince anymore…
And instead would love to become the most successful lawyer in the country…
You then start following that North Star for a while…
Until you start dreaming about creating a peaceful homestead in the woods where you take care of rescued dogs…
And so you start to follow that North Star…
Meanwhile, none of these dreams have come true.
BUT…
You moved forward.
You dared to dream, and took steps to manifest this dream for yourself…
Until the dream apparently wasn’t interesting anymore, bc it didn’t have anything in store for you…
FIRST, by taking steps you grew as a person and what would have given you the feeling you’re looking for, won’t do so anymore right now…
Like the way I want to feel… won’t be fulfilled by owning a piece of stolen Cherokee land anymore (a.k.a. land in West-Virginia that was taken from the natives)…
SECOND, by moving towards the dream, your life changed so drastically that the dream wasn’t necessary anymore to make you happy/calm/sereen, or whatever feeling it is that you’re dreaming of…
Because that’s what it’s all about, isn’t it?
The feeling.
You dream of something because you think it’ll make you feel a certain way.
So you start working towards that, discovering that to feel that way, the dream doesn’t need to be manifested, you can feel it right this moment (which, funnily enough, will make it easier for the dream to manifest itself #lawofattraction)…
Or you discover that what you were dreaming of, actually isn’t the thing that will give you the feeling and you start dreaming of something else.
It’s not always necessary for a dream to come true.
And it’s more than OK if your dreams change each week.
It’s OK.
And it’s SAFE to dream.
In the past you might have been disappointed by a dream not coming true…
But if you look closer, you’ll see it didn’t need to come true …
& that you can now consciously start dreaming of something else…
It’s OK.
Keep dreaming,
Charelle
P.S. You’re always more than welcome to book a free 20-minute online Lightworking Session with me. In a session we’ll discuss what your dreams are for yourself & what kind of business you’d love to have. We’ll zoom in on your inner medicine & steps you can take to start sharing it with the world + make a living doing so. If I feel I can guide you along the way, I’ll share some ways in which we can work together, too. But first foremost, you’ll have a lot more clarity after our session.